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Post by CJ gurl on Jun 10, 2004 11:40:57 GMT -5
to all d guys here.... how does a girl turn down a guy...NICELY!!! hehehe... I'm not quite good with that kay disastrous kaau ang ending pirmi. Either dili nako ting-gan ang guy or akong maaway!!! arggh! Help, please??? heheh. serious bya ni...
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mananap
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Post by mananap on Jul 6, 2004 22:38:22 GMT -5
[tr]it all depends on you. if d gyud nimo luv ang guy, tell him. don't force urself to luv, kay in the end, ikaw ra gihapon ang mo-suffer[/tr]
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shaula
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Post by shaula on Jul 7, 2004 9:23:16 GMT -5
let me just quote a friend: "no matter how you say it, it wud still cause the same amount of pain." db? bisan unsaon pa nimo pag pa NICE sa imong mga words, it still wud not matter, he/she will still feel rejected one way or another. d best thing to do probably is just be honest. just tell him what u really feel. hahaha...nagbuot-buot lng bitaw ko! kung motuo ka, thank you. kung dili, k ra japon.  gud luck! |
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Post by v1adimir on Jul 8, 2004 23:04:46 GMT -5
revenge is a virtue...
that is, if your a male, impregnate the b***h and run..
if your a female... invite him for an orgy.. but find partner for him to watch and learn..
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mananap
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Post by mananap on Jul 19, 2004 3:10:15 GMT -5
you can do anything yet the pain wont subside...it will always be there...the best option i think is to let time pass...they say time heals all wounds...but i dont believe on that...time does not heal wounds...time passes and along with that you wil discover other things so ur attention will be on another thing...but in the end when you feel pain again you will remember all hurt that you felt before...time wont heal wounds...especially wounded hearts...if you can try to move on...i admire people who finds it easy to do that...coz i cant...
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DiRtBaG
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Post by DiRtBaG on Jul 19, 2004 5:18:22 GMT -5
honesty is good but in most cases, the truth really hurts..for us, guys..So, wat im tryin to say is tell a lie!! lyk "im not open for a relationship ryt now coz im concentrating on my studies" or you could say "my parents are strict"(i dunno if this thing still works)..you have to implement your rejection gradually.. para dli sad ma-shock ba!!
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shaula
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Post by shaula on Aug 18, 2004 9:29:21 GMT -5
wat if makulit gihapon? maka-guilty man gud...hay, samok! |
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Post by digitalbath on Aug 22, 2004 21:38:03 GMT -5
dapat honest ka-- mahilig mag paasa ang mga babae.... minsan-
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SoulEdge
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Post by SoulEdge on Aug 23, 2004 4:06:00 GMT -5
ei, i think there's nothing wrong with being straightforward on things you like and you dont like....
however, one must put a 'grain of salt' in everything you might say....
as for me, lies are more painful than truths... one can not live with a lie forever, but one who tells the truth in a "very nice' manner is a blessing...
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shaula
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Post by shaula on Aug 26, 2004 8:42:58 GMT -5
tama!  there are times when people lie just so they would not hurt the person, but little do they know that they hurt the person even more with the lie....  hay, vida!  |
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Post by skye on Aug 28, 2004 12:34:50 GMT -5
it wud b way betr f u tel d guy d truth - no matr how painful it is - but in a nice way of course. cz f u rly dont lyk him, then wt can u do, ryt? u cant 4ce it, and f he rly does love u, he'l understand tht he's not d ryt 1 4 u.. tellng d truth wud also leav u w/ a clearer conscience. cz f ur not staight 2 d point in telling him tht u dnt lyk him THAT way, ur just gna b giving him false hopes n he myt just keep on w8ng 4 u, hoping tht ul chnge ur mind. bt u shd always rmembr 2 kp d frndshp..dont let it come 2 d point wen u feel so awkward around each othr tht u cant even keep a sensible conversation. snce u wer d 1 hu "busted" him, u shud b d 1 2 make d effort at saving d frndshp, its only right.. |
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SoulEdge
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Post by SoulEdge on Aug 29, 2004 19:42:31 GMT -5
do!!!
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shaula
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Post by shaula on Sept 8, 2004 8:25:56 GMT -5
how do you get over someone who was never yours in the first place? hehehe... |
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Post by CJ gurl on Sept 18, 2004 23:31:33 GMT -5
Hahay... thanks a lot for d advice guys. i really think that being honest is the best way 2 go. and SKYE, i agree with u. i think i missed on that department... on the effort of keeping the friendship part. u see, awkward naman gud dba? but i'll do that. clarification lng po... im not d type na mahilig magpaasa. kya ang hirap minsan kc ang sama tuloy ng labas ko kc cnasabi ko kaagad sa guy... hehe. thanks again! *mwah!* 
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